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FuturamaPac
Professor
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The other one hasn't been closed yet!
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EmperorFry
Crustacean
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It may exist on some other planet.
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EmperorFry
Crustacean
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Originally posted by gwynhwyfar: i have to agree with you, jle. i dont think real love exists sometimes.. or people that say they were in love with everyone theyve been with.. Maybe those people are just lonely, and try to snag the first person they think is good enough.
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gaschief
Professor
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This is quite a serious reply & maybe a little off topic:
I took a very similair view of things as Jle does now several years ago. There were various reasons for this principally that relationships people had seemed to be based on desperation, as in a deparate need for affection. I didnt really believe people fell in love. Love isnt a whirlwind of romantic notions, nice words or fairytale weddings. These things are nice but the real measure of love is that you can stay together in the face of adversity. My wife and I went through some really major financial difficulties on the back of having an unexpected child and ill health. despite these practical really difficult times we stayed together and are stronger for that. This isn't romantic fairy tale stuff, but I believe the substance of which real love is made. This transgresses scenario as in parent child man woman, man man, woman woman, brother sister, the same thing is universal. A lot of couples probably don't have it cause a lot of the time we are looking for the wrong things in the wrong places. Its easy I guess to put faith in a fantasy when the 'real world' seems to deny the possibility of real love. Im quite drunk just now so please dont laugh at my ramble!
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EmperorFry
Crustacean
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You have a very smart point, but I agree with the desperation for love thing the most.
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gaschief
Professor
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Originally posted by EmperorFry: You have a very smart point, but I agree with the desperation for love thing the most. I think that applies often to people who are married too
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gaschief
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Fear of dying lonely is a very powerfull force in the human scheme of things, but isn't love. I agree with you there is a lot of desperation about, and its sad that people hook up purely because of these fears. Hold on there Emperor fry!
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EmperorFry
Crustacean
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When I like someone I deny it up and down(if I'm asked). Because school relationships are meaningless to me. When I get out into the real world I'll start looking.
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gaschief
Professor
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Most of the time they are, i didnt bother much with that type of thing at school, and with one exception dont regret that. There are some people though that meet there 'soul mates' at school
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EmperorFry
Crustacean
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Love is four letters of doom. I hate it at school when I'm sitting at the lunch table, then there comes some girls saying," And he totally hooked up with her....." Then I'm just eating with a hate filled face stare.
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gaschief
Professor
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One thing I can say with certainty as a certified old timer is that people talk so much shit at school to try and out do each other. Did you ever see the film American Beauty, with that girl who was the friend of kevin spaceys daughter in the film, I forget the character names. Any she makes out she's hooked up with so many guys and in the end you find out shes a virgin, so so many people at school are like that, dont waste your hate filled face on them save it for a politician !
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coldangel
DOOP Secretary
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« Reply #21 on: 06-17-2007 22:23 »
« Last Edit on: 06-17-2007 22:23 by coldangel_1 »
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Hmmph. Young people and their petty, trivial concerns. Treading the same old hackneyed ground, one generation after another... If only humanity posessed clear access to the collective consciousness so that the young would be able to hold the accrued knowledge of all those who went before them, so they could ADD to that knowledge instead of boring everyone to death by going through the same agonizing crawl to attain that which has already been attained, time and time again... Pfft... humanity still has a long way to go.
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gaschief
Professor
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Does that mean that all we think about is porn?
Sigmeund Freud would probably say yes to that! He did take a lot of cocaine though!
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coldangel
DOOP Secretary
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I was just taking a philisophical thought-provoking path to saying how young kids bore me to tears with their pointless crap.
Who here thinks Nibbler's reference to Leela being the 'other' means that she and Fry are destined to be together? I think probably. Definately probably!
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FuturamaPac
Professor
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Xanfor really needs to send us another telegram.
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JoshTheater
Space Pope
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I resent how you classed todays youth ("I'll sleep with whoever I want and ingnore the consequences" ) as I am part of today's youth and I haven't slept with anyone, let alone done it and said damn to the consequences. I meant the majority of today's youth, I wasn't trying to classify every single person. I mean, I'M part of today's youth, and obviously I don't live by that statement I gave. Some people who believe that love and hooking up aren't morons, as you so nicely put it, they simply haven't seen in anyother way. Not everyone has parents that are happily married you know. To me it equates to simply selfishness and not caring about the other person. Love is about caring, and people SHOULD be able to understand the importance of caring. So some aren't morons, but they're certainly ignorant.
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HipNoJoe
Bending Unit
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« Reply #36 on: 06-20-2007 19:40 »
« Last Edit on: 06-20-2007 19:40 »
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Originally posted by gaschief: Does that mean that all we think about is porn? You got it, chief! - Kinda late, but it had to be said.To no one in particular: Don't badmouth true love until you've experienced it. Even if your so-called honeymoon period seems to flash by in an instant you'll spend the rest of your life desperately trying to get back to it, or trying to drown out the pain of not being able to, or blissfully reminiscing about it . That's how Ferrari, Seagrams and DeBeers make most of their money, respectively. Originally posted by fryandlemon: Fry: Can I pat you on the butt? Leela: Fry, I'm a professional athlete, so go ahead.
Fry: Awwn.. Now I'm too nervous.
What does this little interaction count as? I always read way too much into these scenes. That one fascinates me. The one sure way to cause a guy to stumble is to give an unexpected "yes" to a goofy advance like that. That would sure make me stop and ask myself if she wanted me to pat her on the butt... if so I'd better do a good job - not too softly and not too firmly, or was she just being goofy back at me or is she using reverse psychology or, or...?
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Frisco17
DOOP Secretary
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<Offscreen> Bender: "Among other things. WOO!"
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